Have you ever been betrayed by your cats?

i had three calico cats. I raised them until they were 6 years old. I was so sweet to them and fed them everytime their little tummy’s rumbled. I was surprised when they didnt show up for four nights in a row. They would show up at my door step every night and i would tuck them in and give them a warm bowl of fancy feast. I was worried for those four days until i saw those 3 little bastards at my neighbor house. I was like what the hell. its been like this for 3 years now and ive noticed they have gotten fatter and fatter. They never come to visit unless its steak night at my house. recently i just been throwing the T-bones at their little traitor faces. i just dont understand why they would leave me. The only thing i could come up with was the dogs my mom got. And I may or may have not teased them with the vacuum cleaner and scotch tape, but that still doesnt give them the right to leave me. I am still pretty hurt, i dont think ill ever get a cat again. i remember seeing on the news were a couple of rednecks wanted to legalize hunting cats and i was so furious at the idea. Now i would kidnap those cats back and ship them to Alabama were they would be hunted down by those Texas chainsaw freaks. Some where deep down in my heart i still love them, but it will be year until i can forgive them. are most cats traitors?

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please read this and tell me what you think. its very important?

i have wrote an event that will stay in my mind forever. i made this for my freshmen english class but want to know what other’s think. Please and thank you

Ever had the feeling that no matter what you do its just going to make things worse. No matter how hard you tried, it was all for nothing? We just need to accept the fact that there are some problems out there that cant be resolved. Some times there is a time to give up on someone. I never did believe that. I that there was always a way to fix things. I didn’t realized how stupid I was being.
Well I cant really say it wasn’t my fault how this whole thing turned out, but I did do something to start it. When I was going to middle school there was a blogging website called MySpace. I asked my mom if she could get me on it. And so we got to the main page, but as soon as my mom tried it out and made sure it was save, she was addictive to it. Ever since things had always been the same, my little brother leaving the house more than he would sleep at home. My step dad was a truck driver so he wasn’t home often and slept when he was. But the more thing that was the problem about this whole dilemma was that my mom would always be on MySpace. Once I went to the basement stairs all I hear was the clicking sounds of the keyboard. That was until I made an attempt to stop it all.
My first idea was at least to compromise with my mom and help her break her habit. It was a cloudy day, the skies usually gray leaves kept falling from the trees, and it was very chilly. As I was riding on the school bus on the way home I wonder what awaited me in breaking this cycle. The bus was quiet with not one peep in ear range as I rode the bus that day. And since I was the last one off it took patients returning home. As the bus driver finally halted to a stop and pulled the lever which opened the door I made my way across the aisle of empty seats. Off the bus I notice something. The neighbor’s mailbox number was chipped off. Instead of saying 6018 it said 6013, which kind of freaked me out.
I walked into my front yard miniature hill and entered. I dropped my book bag by the couch on my right. My two dogs sheba and jack were excited to greet me. Even tom, one of my cats missed me was made me feel happy because he’s usually to busy sleeping or hiding to greet anyone. The living room that I had enter had a weird, but often smell in the air. The entertainment system was on the west wall facing the east which located a couch with a hallway right by it. On the south part of the room was a second couch facing the kitchen. In the middle of the living room was a glass table with a lot of papers on it just like the entertainment system did. There was no wall separating the kitchen and the living room except the difference of the livening room carpet floor and the kitchen hard floor. The kitchen had a sink and a door leading to the basement on the west side. A stove, refrigerator and a door leading to the back yard on the north. And a door leading to the garage on the east side. Thus like the living room, the kitchen had a table in the middle except the kitchen table was wooden not glass.
As I maneuver through the stampede of pets I walked down the basement steps. I heard clicking noises as I walked down the steps. Reaching the bottom steps I saw my mom on the computer. The basement was actually the biggest room in the house. It had a litter box and a broken pool table on the north side from where I was facing. A bed that we barely ever use and a computer on the west side. And on the south wall, which was right by me had a door that lead to the laundry room.
I jumped on to the bed and stared at my mom for about five minutes. I then asked my mom “maybe you should take a break.” She did answer.
“Mom did you hear me?”
Yet again no answer.
“Mom!” I yelled
“Oh I’m sorry Chris what do you want?”
“Did you hear a word I just said?”
“Yea something about wanting to go to a dance.”
I slapped my forehead.
“No mom, I want you to take a break from that thing.”
“Alright I won’t get on it tomorrow.”
“Promise?”
That question never got answered with words, only clicking noises from the key board

Of course her promise was never kept, only delayed. She would always put it off to another day or just say she forgot. I had faith in her but I lost my patience’s. Finally I knew that I had to stop her instead of trusting her. So one day I did something that would stop her by force. She then realized what I did. I was in the living room watching TV when she confronted me.

“Where is it?!” she yelled.

“Where’s what?” I bluffly wondered

“Don’t play games with me boy; you tell me where it is now!”

“I really don’t know what you’re talking about”

“Give it to me now!”

She then gave me a look. This look was a sign that she was serious

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What is patriotism, and what does it mean by being truely patriotic?

Why do murders, lies, deceptions, and many acts of sin deemed ok in the name of patriotism?
Isn’t patriotism really just a glorified jumbo version of selfish, prejudice, racism?
What is the big difference between "I would kill anyone for my country!" and "I would kill my neighbor for his pool and to get rid of his annoy dogs"
When is loving ones nation meaning hating all other nations?
Why do we put so much more hatred toward, Iraqis killing American, than an American killing American, or American killing Iraqis?
For that matter, what really define a nation? Is it by beliefs? Is it by region? Is it by skin color? Is it by language? Or ultimately by guns?
Self, Family & Friends, City, Province/State, Country, Earth – Why is country at the top of that pyrmite; where every conflict below it is civil, is "ok", but take another step up, it is serious and grievous. (I am pretty sure more American have being killed by American, than Iraqis)
Who gets to define who is the "enemy nation"?
When we save lives, why do we care what nationlity they are?
Are we being patriotic when we are "celebrating" another nations civil misfortune?

I love my country, but how do we draw the line between loving my country and hating the rest?
betty – obviously we are not really not talking about the same thing here… i am not talking patriotism just for USA, pretty sure u have all the rights and liberties and freedom if there is no country and government.
Being Patriotic stems from self preservation – i agree, but i am asking how far is too far (most of the time it is not the scenario of live or die, yet horrible/ugly things have been done in the name of patriotism), and how are u defining the "self" here (aren’t we all human here? who are to say which citizen of which nation deserves more to live than the other one? if u r born in French, but spent ur whole life in Germany, who should u be patriotic to? and why?)
"In terms of terror management theory, the fear of death pushes us together with one group but escalates violence with the outgroup. " – that sounds brilliant
i understand the "pushes us together" part, but y does it lead to "escalates violence", they don’t seem to be that connected.
i got this off wikipedia
"Among the ancient Greeks, patriotism consisted of notions concerning language, religious traditions, ethics, law and devotion to the common good, rather than pure identification with a nation-state"
"fascism, a radical and authoritarian nationalist ideology"
i also got this from somewhere (forgot) – "Patriotism is merely politically manipulated altruism"

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holy crap! crazy story!?

So I’m 18 (and a girl) and I just went to the most uncomfortable event I’ve ever been to. So I’m (more or less, secretly) seeing this boy who lives in my neighborhood. My aunt (my mom’s younger sister) is in town visiting and stayed with us last night. After dinner and we had all gone to bed, (about 1:30) I snuck over to this boy’s house (his parents are at the community center all night cooking brisket for the barbecue today). So we were kissing and whatnot, and things got a little hot and pretty soon we were having sex in his bedroom. Well needless to say, my heart leaped into my throat when I saw his mom pull in the driveway. I was totally 100% butt naked, no clothes on at all, and there was no time to escape. My clothes were scattered around his room, and i threw them up on top of his tv stand (like 8 feet tall) lol, and I made a break for his closet. I couldn’t move because I could hear his mom going around the house looking for something. Then she came into his room and asks why he’s still up and if he’s seen their dog leash. Lol. So I’m frozen and scared, cramped up in a little ball, butt naked on the floor of his (non walk-in) closet. So minutes turn into hours, still too scared to get out of there, and I ended up dozing off. Well I woke up at 7 am when his mom comes back into the room to wake him up to get dressed. He came and got me once the coast was clear, but my clothes were still up on that thing and it would have taken too long to get them, so I just grabbed one of his button-down shirts and bailed out the window. So then I was navigating my way back to my house over fences and across yards (including a 30 acre vacant field) in the dim overcast morning light, wearing only a button-down dress shirt (which was relatively ineffective in concealing my female parts). Well I finally got into my neighbor’s yard (there’s no fence between the two houses) after running a good quarter mile and climbing fences, and I tripped and fell in their pool. So I finally get out and scamper to the back door (were I had left from) hoping it was still unlocked. It was. So I took the shirt off and wringed the water out of it, and walked in the house. I took one step, and stopped dead in my tracks. You could only hear the water droplets hitting the floor. My aunt was sitting there in the living room staring right at me. She had been up for an hour. She saw me come to the back door out of breath, soaking wet, butt naked, holding a boy’s dress shirt, and having been missing at least since she got up. She didn’t say anything. I just kinda sheepishly waved, and ran to my room, dried off, and crawled in bed. Today, at the barbecue, no one said a thing. My friend (with benefits) was there, his parents were there, my parents were there, and my aunt was there. I can’t believe I actually got away scott free. I’m going to be really nice to my aunt from now on. lol

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HOLY CRAP. you gotta see this! just freaking crazy?

So I’m 18 (and a girl) and I just went to the most uncomfortable event I’ve ever been to. So I’m (more or less, secretly) seeing this boy who lives in my neighborhood. My aunt (my mom’s younger sister) is in town visiting and stayed with us last night. After dinner and we had all gone to bed, (about 1:30) I snuck over to this boy’s house (his parents are at the community center all night cooking brisket for the barbecue today). So we were kissing and whatnot, and things got a little hot and pretty soon we were getting it on seriously hardcore in his bedroom. Well needless to say, my heart leaped into my throat when I saw his mom pull in the driveway. I was totally 100% butt naked, no clothes on at all, and there was no time to escape. My clothes were scattered around his room, and i threw them up on top of his tv stand (like 8 feet tall) lol, and I made a break for his closet. I couldn’t move because I could hear his mom going around the house looking for something. Then she came into his room and asks why he’s still up and if he’s seen their dog leash. Lol. So I’m frozen and scared, cramped up in a little ball, butt naked on the floor of his (non walk-in) closet. So minutes turn into hours, still too scared to get out of there, and I ended up dozing off. Well I woke up at 7 am when his mom comes back into the room to wake him up to get dressed. He came and got me once the coast was clear, but my clothes were still up on that thing and it would have taken too long to get them, so I just grabbed one of his button-down shirts and bailed out the window. So then I was navigating my way back to my house over fences and across yards (including a 30 acre vacant field) in the dim overcast morning light, wearing only a button-down dress shirt (which was relatively ineffective in concealing my female parts). Well I finally got into my neighbor’s yard (there’s no fence between the two houses) after running slightly more than a mile and climbing fences, and I tripped and fell in their pool. So I finally get out and scamper to the back door (were I had left from) hoping it was still unlocked. It was. So I took the shirt off and wringed the water out of it, and walked in the house. I took one step, and stopped dead in my tracks. You could only hear the water droplets hitting the floor. My aunt was sitting there in the living room staring right at me. She had been up for an hour. She saw me come to the back door out of breath, soaking wet, completely butt naked, holding a boy’s dress shirt, and having been missing at least since she got up. She didn’t say anything. I just kinda sheepishly waved, and ran to my room, dried off, and crawled in bed. Today, at the barbecue, no one said a thing. My friend (with benefits) was there, his parents were there, my parents were there, and my aunt was there. I can’t believe I actually got away scott free. I’m going to be really nice to my aunt from now on. lol

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There is a friendly unneutered collarless cat hanging around my house, can someone familiar w/cats help me?

It was laying on my front porch this afternoon, and when it saw me it came to the glass and started meowing. My dog is really aggressive toward other animals, so he started growling and barking at it through the glass, the cat was unfazed. It is really thin, so I took it some dog food and water (I read later that you shouldn’t give cats dog food, so I gave it some raw tuna fish and it ate an entire can’s worth).

I’m going to get it checked for a microchip, but I really don’t think someone would have it microchipped and not neutered. It is so friendly I can’t imagine its been living on its own for long. When I go outside, it follows me everywhere, I can’t take a step without it following, and when I go back inside it tries to squeeze in between my feet to get in the house.

It hung around all day and slept underneath my car, but as it started getting dark I decided to put it in my backyard. It kept walking along the rock waterfall that runs across the back of my pool, and it would lean in over the water. At around 9:30 pm, I was in my backyard with it trying to decide where I should put it and all of a sudden another cat jumped over my fence. They meowed at each other, but the other cat was scared of me and it ran off to the side of my house. I decided to put my stray in the driveway, because it wouldn’t stay away from the water. The other cat started meowing from my front yard then ran to my neighbor’s yard. I didn’t get a very good look at it, but it was the exact same size as my stray (tiny). My neighbors’ cats’ are all bigger and kept inside, especially at night.

Sorry for the long-winded backstory, these are my questions:

I have never seen unneutered stray animals without collars running around in the area where I live, is it possible someone dumped these cats in my neighborhood? Maybe thinking a family would take them in and take care of them?

They meowed at each other from a distance and just kind of stared at each other, like they were curious. Is it safe to assume they will get along and not fight? I’m worried the other cat is an unspayed female and their meowing was some kind of mating call.

Are they going to be safe outside? I live in a neighborhood in the suburbs, but there is some wooded area about a block from my house. Would a possum or raccoon try and attack the cat? And would the cat be able to get away?

Is it better to leave my driveway light on to keep other animals away? It can still hide under my car or in some plants along the fence that aren’t lit up.

I found a no kill shelter in the Houston area called Noah’s Ark Animal Sanctuary, I’m going to call tomorrow and see if they can take care of it. Thanks in advance for the help, I don’t know anything about cats or how to take care of them!

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can anyone help me with this story i’m working on?

The sounds of summer surround the atmosphere in the backyard of my house in Lowell. There is a shabby, old swing set left from the people who had owned this house before us. The hinges are rusty, the swing seats are cracking, and bee’s nests adorn the underside of the slide. A scent of the city is unmistakable and mixed with the smell of pear tree and cut grass. The sky is a perfect shade of light blue with very few clouds. I feel a slight breeze wisp around and whisper my name.

Maxi boy sits beside his large dog house as he protects our yard. The large, stereotypical red food bowl with his name printed in yellow is placed in the front of the house and is filled to the brim every morning. Father lounges outside on a white lawn chair and tosses Maxi boy’s rubber cheeseburger across the lawn towards the neighbor’s tomato garden. Mom is inside cleaning the antique two floor house. The floors creak, dust is collecting everywhere, and some of the furniture is older than my parents, but this is still our ideal home.

A young woman whose name I can never seem to remember lives next door and teaches music. The hundreds of instruments all play at once in a symphony of sounds that one might consider, “useless noise”. I always visit her house at the same time each week where we drink cool lemonade and she plays an accordion one week, a guitar the next, a piano the week after that, and so on. She is my inspiration to sing and learn piano, yet I still don’t remember her name no matter how hard I try. I can only remember her many instruments, her long, curly, and dark hair, and her pale white skin.

My parents are both so young and beautiful, but I see right through the façade. My Mom and I are so alike physically and my Father and I are alike personality-wise. Mom steps out of my view and appears from the old white steps on the side of her house. Her blonde, curly hair bounces around her freckle face. She hands my father a glass of water and runs her fingers through his short, dark hair and smiles her pearly white smile at him. I always notice that her teeth are a little crooked, just like mine.

Father attempts a smile of his own, but I can tell that he is worried. He’s always worried for a reason I’m not sure, and Mom has always been light and easy-going. Mom notices his worry, and I can see hurt pierce her luminescent blue eyes. She touches his pale face and beckons to me. I ignore his anxiety and her sadness and jump off of the rusty swing set to follow Mom into the ancient house.

“Cheyenne, what do you want for lunch?”, Mom asks as we enter the kitchen.

The floor has a small white tiling that is cracking and the walls are peeling wallpaper. A vintage radio player sits on a table to the right of the door and the counters are to the left by the fridge and the oil stove. I can hear chirping coming from the vent above the stove and so I discover a bird’s nest caught behind the vent. Mom wants to make lunch, probably something on the stove. I gasp and realize that I will have to set up several birdie funerals if she does.

“Mom, could you maybe not cook today? There are birds in there.”

I point quickly to the vent and jump up and down. Mom smiles and replies, “Alright Honey. I’ll make sandwiches. Go get your bathing suit on upstairs. I put it on your bed.”

I smile back and say, “Okay Mom! Thanks!”

We had just gotten a kiddy pool yesterday and I picked the colorful fish pattern. Running out of the kitchen excitedly, I make my way towards the front of the house, and up the chipped stairs. I can’t even count how many times I have gotten a sliver on these same stairs. Not that I can count that much at all, at least not past twenty.

When I finally reach the top of the stairs, a grandfather clock is against the sand colored wall staring at me. I shudder and run down the hallway into my small bedroom. The rugs that were once white are now gray and the bureau that was once shiny and new is now dull and old. My favorite bathing suit is on the cot across the room. I have a Lion King sleeping bag as my comforter and an Aladdin pillow. Taking the bathing suit, I prance back down the hallway into the bathroom and close the door behind me.

I wash the dirt off of my hands from the swing set and stand on my tip-toes to check for dirt on my face in the circular mirror. I have hair and skin like my Mom and eyes like my father, a peculiar type of golden brown. With my blue polka dot hand me down bathing suit on I slowly make my way down the hazardous stairs and skip into the kitchen with a huge smile on my face. My bologna and cheese sandwich sits delicately on my favorite green dinosaur plate. Just as I’m about to bite, the familiar ring of the house phone sounds and I sneak into the living room to pick up the phone while Mom comes into the house to answer the other one in the kitchen.

The phone is a dull yellow and has little Blue’s Clues stickers on it from the coloring book I got for
oops! yahoo cut my story off! (: if anyone wants the rest i can send it via email! thanks ! (:
i never told you to tell me what you like because i don’t give a shit. i said to help with my writing skills. dumbass.

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Is it just me, or is she stepping over the line?

This morning, as I’m strapping the boys into their car seats, my neighbor comes over and starts talking to me. She’s a middle aged, grouchy old bitty with no children and like 7 cats. The way our farm is set up, the only thing she can see from her property is two of our fields, our house, our dog cage, and our pool. She said " If I EVER see your husband pull a stunt like what he did saturday night, I’ll call child protective services, I swear to god." and I was like "huh?" at this point, I’m thinking there is something I don’t know about. She goes " you were sitting there putting christian’s lifejacket on. He picked Kyliegh up and threw her into the deep end of that pool!" I was like "whatever" and got into my car and left. When He threw Kyliegh into the pool, she had her life jacket and bathing suit on [we make all three of our kids wear life jackets because the deep end of our pool is 8 ft.] ands she asked him to throw her in, giggling the whole time. Kyliegh is 8, by the way.
its not the first time she’s threatened to call them either. last summer, she told me she was going to call because she saw me let kyliegh drive our mule [farm vehicle] while I followed her on one of our four wheelers. I just think she is going to far with butting into our lives? any one else with me?
I’m not worried about whether she’ll actually call, because even if she does, we have nothing to hide. our children are all well taken care of and extremely happy. I just want her to stop running her mouth.
she can swim, sorry for not mentioning that. I just make her wear a life jacket for my own peace of mind. I don’t like the idea of her being in water that deep without a backup support, and she likes to jump off the diving board.
all three of my kids can at least make it to the side of the pool. My two older can both swim. But, like I said, the life jackets are a backup in case something happens.

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How understanding (bark tolerant) are your neighbors?

I’m always amazed when people post on here about their neighbors threatening their barking dogs. Although I admit if I was in the city with an extremely noisy dog next door, I’d probably get annoyed at some point too. How are your neighbors with your dogs? Do they mind barking, roaming, etc?
For me, I live pretty much in the woods/country but we do have neighbors. They all love my dogs. The ones on either side of me will call us over when we’re playing outside or walking so they can pet them. They’re also extremely tolerant right now while I’m trying to work with my newer rescued dog who barks at anything she sees and if I’m out of reach of her. I’ve already taught her a "quiet" command which works well. And she’s already gotten a lot better with not being frightened of new things, but I don’t know if that would be the case if I had to go get her and coddle her every time this happened to avoid neighbors getting mad. The one across the street has a dog that’s allowed to roam (absolutely no one has fences, but we’re not along a road or anything..literally in the woods) and he goes from house to house getting food and even is allowed to swim in the one neighbor’s pool (providing he uses the steps haha).
Aah A&E that’s hilarious!

And yeah I should add I don’t let even that one dog of mine bark long, I just don’t have to worry about shush’ing her ring away. But we also have a dog nearby that does bark 24/7 and no one really cares or says anything to them, we’re spaced out far enough that’s it’s not crazy annoying or loud.
^ *right* not ring haha typo
Wow sweetyebug that’s nuts I love my neighbors even more now!

And I have to agree with most of you on roaming. I don’t let mine, even though my neighbors pretty much ask me to. I don’t really mind others though but I think that’s due to where we live and the fact that I know and love all the dogs around here. If there was a strange or unfriendly one, or if I didn’t already have to pick up tons of poo from my own dogs or the deer, bears, etc I’d be a little peeved too.

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Did you know it is the LAW?

You MUST take your dog to the vet if he is sick or injured whether you have money or not. Did you know that this is the law? I just learned yesterday that it is considered felony animal cruelty and they are really starting to come down hard on it L.A. County.

We have always taken our pets in even if we were unemployed. We skipped a bill payment, borrowed money or had a garage sale, but we always took them.

I just thought it was interesting to know that considering how many people come on here and say "and don’t say VET because I don’t have the money." They don’t have a choice. If their neighbor turns them in, they’re looking at having to pay a hefty fine at the very least or jail time at the most (which is happening more and more). Our neighbor had to pay a 0 fine and was court ordered to never have a dog again because he let his german shepherd go without treatment for hip dysplasia. The poor dog was falling down constantly and the man never once took him to the vet. All it took was one phone call to Animal Control. They made two trips out there – the first to warn him he had to do it, the second to take the dog. It was nice to see him taken away in handcuffs. He claimed he couldn’t afford it either yet his wife wears designer clothes and they drive brand new mercedes SUVs. Guess they should have spent the money on the dog instead of the car!
ETA: I was told by the prosecutor that it IS a federal law, which is why we see people on Animal Cops (insert city name here) being prosecuted. It just depends on how strong your local D.A.’s office is and how into prosecuting it because it’s not what they call the "glamour" case (meaning it’s not going to bring the press, get them fame or publicity). I would assume that it’s up to neighbors to report the injured animals, the animal control officers to do the footwork and gather evidence (our neighbor tried to claim he had just found the dog, but the A.C. officer spoke to everyone in a two block radius and got statements that this man has had the dog for at least 8 years) and the D.A.’s office to take the case once it is submitted. Maybe if we all push our D.A.’s offices more, they will step up and prosecute more of these cases??

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